Lesson Learned #5

November 02, 2025

Kijuan “The Psalmist”

I’ve uncovered a subtle yet powerful lesson about how I reveal myself—how effortlessly I fill silence with stories, details, and explanations. For years, I trained myself to be completely open, thinking that transparency would foster genuine connection. But lately, I’ve realized a deeper truth: openness without discernment can lead to confusion, drown out other voices, and cause me to miss the true heart of the relationship.